"Blind" Date - A Partnered Embodied Kink Experience

A playful and sensual dive into connection and embodied kink in pairs. Come with a long term partner, new crush, a friend who always is down for something fun, or person you want to get to know better. Staying in the pairs you arrive in, taking turns wearing a blind fold, you will explore what is to give and receive various sensations with your partner ranging from soft to spicy through guided, timed exercises. This will be a soft launch for any of those new to and curious about kink and power dynamics, and a chance to explore and deepen that range for those experienced in that type of play.

Agenda:

7:30-7:45 - arrival and settling in (doors will close at 7:45)

7:45 - 8: 15 - opening circle, grounding, sharing of intentions

8:15 - 9:30 - a series of exercises in your pairs, being blindfolded in turn. you will explore different types of touch (the four elements - wind, water, earth and fire touch), using gentle sensation tools (ex flowers, feathers, silks), and guided, instructed play with impact tools (at your option - ex floggers, paddles, rods).

9:30-10 - integration and closing shares

Details:

What to wear? Dress for a sensual evening of play - flowing fabrics, lingerie, kink/fetish wear, anything that makes you feel present and embodied.

Do we trade partners through the evening? Nope. This is created to be a partnered evening where you explore with the person you come with. I may do future versions with partner mixing, but to ensure high levels of comfort and trust we are working in established pairs. While tickets are sold separately please make sure you come with a partner!

What if I've never done anything like this? All levels welcome! Everything will be guided and we are here to teach and answer questions. We will work in the gentle play range only, even with the spicy instruments (ie we won't go beyond a 5/10 in intensity). This is not a "hardcore" kink event - it's about being present in your energy, and open to exploring sensation. If you have any questions feel free to reach out before you sign up.

How sexy are we talking? While this will be a connected evening with your partner of choice and could be classified as an embodied kink event, it will not be explicit or "x-rated" (carry that energy home if you wish :)). Each pair and each person within a pair will choose their level of play and will be invited to turn down the temperature whenever it suits them. Options for all exercises will be given, as well as the opportunity to simply sit in presence for any exercises you don't want to participate in. This is a sacred consent container where you hold your desires and boundaries.

What should I bring? Bring a blind fold (a scarf, a sleep mask, or an airline eye cover all work). Bring some "gentle" sensation tools if you like (anything soft - feathers, silk, roses). If you have impact tools you like you're welcome to bring them as well (floggers, paddles, bamboo - feel free to think outside the box and bring "pevertables" like wooden spoons, hair brushes, leather gloves).